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    FIRST HUBBY

    FIRST HUBBYFat boy had a perverse kink.He liked to feel blood drippingon to his balls when he got a BJ. That meant a punch to my nose.He would shoot twice as muchand twice as hard and be twice ashappy,...

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    • I sure hope this is fiction! Fat or not, this guy is a sad excuse for a man. I’ve never understood why some men treat their wives so terrible. A mistake I’ve seen in my life is that of assuming the children of a bad person will be bad, too.

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    LOVELIFE PROGRESSION

    LOVE LIFE PROGRESSION The first hubby beats you.He threatens to kill you. The second hubby does drugs.You work and give him your pay. Third hubby doesn't beat you. He works, provides and gives you presents. You don't understand that at all!So you leave...

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    • Paula
      Maybe, you’re looking in the wrong places.
      Looking outside ones self for happiness is what most of us do and it just never works.
      Happiness is illusive and impermanent so I settle mostly for contentment which is made easier when I have all the material things required for a decent life.
      Not everyone is that lucky and their happiness/contentment might just be having a hot shower or quick sex.

      Hope this doesn’t seem like a lecture.Its really only expressing what I have learnt.

      Have a nice day.

    • Moral of the story: Never get married.

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    WHAT IS LOVE

    WHAT IS LOVE? What is love? If he gives you something you want, need or asked for - it's materialistic. That's not love! If he tries to please you sexually - it'sonly cause he's also gonna get off. That's not love! Hugs, kisses and "words"...

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    • I’ve never been able to define love.The romantic concept of love is our BS…mostly.
      For me,love is characterised by selflessness (but not always).The ability to put someone else’s needs before your own.Love comes from the most unexpected places.Like, doing the laundry, cleaning the bathroom,sharing the load.
      It’s nice to know that others,like yourself,are not afraid to ask what love is.
      I read something once that said:
      Love is the absence of Fear.
      Fear is the absence of Love.
      🌻

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    Thawed: Or, Love And Losses In Days Of Lockdown

    It’s cold in this time of the year And it reminds me of your hands There were no hands But there was some warmth Maybe from this thread of conversations Days of Q’s and A’s Days of exchanging stories, And some thoughts On how hearts can be...

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