when you are in rome be Roman
With zeans and western top, leaving hair people say you live in America 🇺🇸 ?
When you wear saree or Punjabi suit and with hair braid people say she is from 🇮🇳 india
Because that makes you one of them. People sometimes insult them what is she wearing.
In Indian weather and transportation if you leave hair travel in RTC bus you start losing hair getting frizzy.
If you make braid in America people will laugh how she is tying her hair.
I tried to look in decent wherever I am maintaining my originality.
I dont get hurt when people talk about my Grey hair my mid age weight gain, I have an answer for their queries.
I like to be what i want to be. Sometimes I listen when my dad says why you wearing zeans when I am in hyderabad going to job. He also said why you are wearing saree. Then I thought I shouldn’t dye my hair, wear punjabi suit and with minimal makeup because he is scared of me if i look little good people may comment and hurt me. It makes sense and i work so need to be careful not to fall in eyes of bad men.
I have started my journey when I was out from school from uniform to casuals, I never wear good dresses i used to stick to simple dress with no makeup and small ear rings. Later I tried to dress up nicely in my work. Now I am back to simplicity.
What we wear should reflect our family roots and dignity of home country.
In india politicians wear very decent saree with simple look they represent india 🇮🇳 and our gesture Namaste.
People teased me in Iraq by saying Good morning, few got angry when i said good morning instead of Salaam malikkun, then I thought of saying in their language.
In india we say Namaste with hands joined in respect to elders.
I like the eastern gesture bowing head in respect.
I was feeling great, if you see deputy chief minister of Andhra Pradesh married Russian lady who was actress. She is wearing saree and her sindhoor and gesture of Namaste to greet people, was so good. Because people from india are forgetting and insulting their culture westernising them and wearing short clothes I dont know for what to look like western Or give sex appeal. When our culture is embraced by foreigners why do you want to expose…
Anyways now people are saying who are you to judge me i say i am not but warning that you are losing your respect as woman and becoming sluttish.
I respect everyone i say even westerners also getting ruined wit their way of living.
You need to be like flower that blossoms 🌸 with your way or style of look.
Jessy Jacob
I write raw but I make sure it makes sense and True to reality.
