How to look like in 40s,
my 30s i tried to be as a mother with decent clothes
my hair turned grey in this year so fastly spreading through
when God gave life how best we can use our body
many like to look young as if in teenager,
exposing the legs hands and other parts
i feel i should look as per my age,
I thought i will never dye my hair,
I look more matured,
I try to wear full or half sleeves,
wear full length skirts.
I have 14 yrs old son,
my husband is younger to me
his grey hair here and there started.
If i look old my husband feels happy
now you look old and no men will look at you,
that is a good point,
yes its protection from people. and my son thinks same
So i wanted to wear sarees,
i am looking fat too, sarees are not looking decent enough
so i am wearing suits, chudidhaar making me look right to my age.
My point is that we need to look as per age, so that
kids feel my mom is good looking,
what if we look like with shorts and sleeveless, kids
will feel why you want to wear so short,
my teenage and my husband complaint,
no need to look so beautiful
just wear full clothes,
I am happy if they are happy.
So dear people enjoy every year and grow mature
as age with time.
our human life from birth to death is a
beautiful transition and every year is making us feel better.
I know few people want to look so slim.
may be that is good to not be diabetic or heart patient
but i monitor my BMI and keep myself illness free.
Now in this month my husband
is turning 37 yrs old,
i see him, his voice is getting
shivering and his skinny cheeks turning little old.
I am fine he is getting matured to lead higher roles in life and career.
i see no benefit in looking sexy when your family doenst like even including kids.
Be happy live happy, maintaining sexy body is threat to you,
and it makes look like you are overly trying to look so young from back,
and when they see your face they will say she is old and why she is wearing so shorts
and kids never like it.
Dont ever try to look more beautiful than bride in a wedding,
And dont ever look sexy than your kids.
Dont dominate the Goddess in temple by wearing so much
Its not the way to look like.
Jessy Jacob.
